We recently stopped traveling the United States full-time and are settling down in one of our favorite small cities. Going from National Parks and an endless stretch of road to street grids and urban life is a bit of a change, but we are wholeheartedly embracing it.
The big decision: full-time travel to city life
In October 2018, we had to make a big decision. Continue traveling for another 3-6 months (or longer) or make the leap to returning to our old adopted hometown. This was such a hard decision to make! We loved the freedom of travel, the sightseeing and togetherness, and the ability to see family and friends around the United States.
But truthfully, we were quite lonely, and the kids were eager for friends. Kirk and I missed dinner parties and get togethers with good friends, and we were both ready to take the next steps with my business and his music.
Although we knew we would be giving up travel, it seemed we had a lot to gain.
So when a great hospital job opened up for Kirk in the city we wanted to live in, we figured, why not see what happens? He got an interview and then two days later, the job offer. We had already tentatively accepted a next travel rotation in Monterey, CA (my hubs took contract medical work as we moved around the US) and we made a really quick decision to pivot toward city life.
He started work two weeks later!
Now that we’re back “home”, we’re planning for what our future looks like and getting excited about raising a family in the city.
We’ve always swung between craving wild open nature and walkable city life, so it’s natural for us to give this a try. We like to approach life with a “why not?” mentality, and we’re really enjoying seeing how city life can ALSO fit our family’s values of simplicity, togetherness, community, and wellness.
What we’re loving right now about family city life
a vibrant, well-developed urban core full of interesting new shops, restaurants, and gorgeous green spaces, museums, and entertainment.
a supportive creative community of entrepreneur mamas (for me!) and a happening music scene (for Kirk!)
opportunities for alternative and sustainable living for families: great family housing options in the urban core, plenty of public transit options (new streetcar lines and rent-able scooters and bikes), and a growing awareness around sustainability and zero-waste living.
plenty of good friends and community in close proximity and other families equally excited about the growth and progress happening in the city.
What do the next few years look like for us?
Honestly, we have no interest in home ownership anymore. Two older homes with all of the usual problems cured us of any romanticism surrounding home ownership. We love living small and purposefully and will do so until we’re ready to take the leap to our next home.
We plan to live tiny for the next 6-12 months and then move into an apartment downtown in 2020. We LOVE the idea of being able to walk to restaurants, to friends’ homes and our church—all within a few blocks! As we get closer to the move, I’ll share more about how we made this decision and why the financial numbers make sense for us.
We’ve always been interested in living in a downtown area of a city, and we’re excited to make that part of our plans for the future.